After a divorce,

it is not easy to decide to start a new relationship. Coach Kurt Smith gives four tips on how to go on dates.

After parting with the spouse, it is strange and anxious to start going on dates again. And the impressions of them are different than before marriage. It seems that the rules have changed, and you have to delve into new subtleties, for example, to master applications like Tinder and Bumble. Here are four tips that will help adapt to new realities, return to the system of bachelors and meet half.

1. Make sure you treat yourself well

Divorce leaves wounds and pain. Take the therapy that will allow you to survive the divorce and heal the wounds after it. There will be no use from the dates until you cope with disappointment and resentment on the opposite floor. And you run the risk of stepping on the same rake, if you do not analyze the mistakes that you made in an unsuccessful marriage.

Before you start dating others, you need to reunite with you. It will take time to determine who you are actually. You are what you are, it doesn’t matter if you are married or not. Although the experience that you received in the process of divorce influenced how you became. Accept yourself and try to love yourself. No one will love you if you do not love yourself.

2. Start acting

If you are ready for new meetings, start moving. Go to the places where you can meet. Register on a dating site or in a mobile application and start dating new people. Try to do something new, enter interesting groups on social networks or go to another church.